The Dangers of HB185: Protecting Children from Domestic Violence

On Thursday, March 28, the NH Senate Judiciary Committee will convene to discuss HB185, a bill regarding the determination of parental rights and responsibilities based on shared parenting. While the intention may seem to prioritize parental involvement, the potential consequences of this legislation pose a serious threat to the safety and well-being of children in New Hampshire. If you are a resident if New Hampshire, join is in signing in to oppose this bill prior to the hearing (details on how to do so below)!

It's essential to recognize that there is no one-size-fits-all solution when it comes to family dynamics. Every family is unique, with its own set of circumstances and needs. The current law was crafted to ensure that parenting arrangements are tailored to each child's specific situation and what is in their best interest. However, HB185 shifts the focus away from the well-being of the child and places undue emphasis on a presumption of shared parenting.

One of the most concerning aspects of HB185 is its potential impact on cases involving domestic violence. By prioritizing shared parenting above other critical factors, such as child abuse and domestic violence, the bill could force victims of domestic violence into 50/50 custody arrangements with their abusers. This is not only dangerous but could also perpetuate cycles of abuse and control.

Judges must retain discretion when determining parenting arrangements, especially in cases where there are significant safety concerns, including domestic violence. All too often, abusers use custody and court proceedings as tools to maintain power and control over their victims. HB185 could exacerbate this issue, leaving victims trapped in abusive relationships for the sake of protecting their children.

Moreover, abusers frequently use children as pawns to manipulate and abuse their victims further. Granting joint custody to an abusive parent can provide them with a mechanism to continue exerting control and perpetuating abuse. This is not in the best interest of the child and can have devastating consequences on their physical and mental health.

Children who are exposed to domestic violence are at a heightened risk of experiencing adverse childhood experiences (ACES), which can have long-term implications for their well-being. By forcing victim-parents to maintain regular contact with their abusers, HB185 could subject children to ongoing trauma and harm.

HB185 poses a significant threat to the safety and welfare of children in New Hampshire, particularly in cases involving domestic violence. It's imperative that lawmakers prioritize the safety and well-being of children above all else and reject legislation that could further endanger vulnerable families. As advocates for children's rights and safety, we must continue to speak out against policies that put them at risk and work towards solutions that prioritize their protection.

Join us in opposing this bill by logging on today! Use this link and follow these simple steps:

1. Click March 28 on the calendar.

2. Select "Senate Judiciary" in the committee drop-down list.

3. Choose 9:00am - HB185 from the "bill" drop-down list.

4. Select "Member of the Public" under the "I am" drop-down list.

5. Type "Myself" in the "I am representing" section.

6. Finally, select "I oppose this bill" and then click "continue." This will lead you to a page where you can complete the registration process.